The middle school years are a time of tremendous change. It's hard to be prepared for your child's rapid growth, frequent mood swings and various needs.

How well are you coping with it all? Answer yes or no to the questions below to find out:

___1. Are you involved with your child's education and in his life? Your child doesn't need you to hover, but he still needs you.

___2. Do you understand that your child is going through many physical and emotional changes? Don't take all his words and actions personally.

___3. Do you speak to your child on a higher level than you did when he was younger?

___4. Do you realize that your child has a great need to be accepted by his peers at this age?

___5. Do you refuse to compromise when it comes to safety, but try to be flexible with other limits?

How well are you doing?

Mostly yes answers means you are coping well with your changing child. For no answers, try those ideas.

Reprinted with permission from the December 2009 issue of Parents Still make the difference!® (Middle School Edition) newsletter. Copyright © 2009 The Parent Institute®, a division of NIS, Inc.